Tuesday

Hello everyone,
Just wanted to update and let everyone know that last months Munch was wonderful. We had several new faces which is always great. I did get some wonderful ideas on how to make Our munch even better. So after some thinking and brain storming with my wing man and he knows who he is :)
I have decided that starting with the March munch we will have an open discussion that is related to BDSM topics. These discussions will be held every other month. So for our Very 1st I have decided it would be fun and interesting to learn how the BDSM Lifestyle affects our everyday vanilla life, and how we all discovered this was the Lifestyle for us...

I will be asking for topic ideas for future discussions. I am planning on speaking with the manager of the resturant and seeing if they can seat us upstairs where we could have a little more privacy so we don't disturb the vanilla folk sitting at near by tables.... Hope to see even more new faces in the months to come..

Thanks
Mistress Kathleen

Monday

Fairfield County Munch

Hello everyone,This is Kathleen the hostess for the Fairfield County BDSM Munch. I will do my best to make sure that things stay on track as much as possible. I will do my best to answer your questions and if I don't know the answer I will do my best to find the answer. Feel free to email me direct at fairfieldmunch@aol.com. The munch will continue at the Brewhouse in Norwalk on the last Tuesday of each month. I try to keep everyone posted via email. If you would like to be included in the announcement list please send me an email. I also welcome any comments or suggestions that you may want to share. Look forward to seeing everyone at our next munch.

Kathleen

Here is some additional information:


Date: (the last Tuesday of the month)
Time: 7:30 pm
Place: The Brewhouse Restaurant in South Norwalk http://www.sonobrewhouse.com
Who: Anyone involved or interested in all areas of bdsm
Why: To spend an evening in the company of other kinky folk…to laugh, talk, eat, network, and make new friends.
RSVP: fairfieldmunch@aol.com RSVP's are appreciated so that we can let the restaurant know how many people to set up for. Look for the table with the sign that says Munch.
More Details: The Brewhouse used to be a microbrewery. They no longer brew on the premises, but they do have a wide selection of interesting beer choices, as well as a reasonable wine list. The menu is typical pub fair, but the food is excellent and they are very willing to accommodate individual dietary preferences. If they have the ingredients, they'll make it for you. You can take a look at the full menus on their website: http://www.sonobrewhouse.com/menus.htm The website has directions http://www.sonobrewhouse.com/directions.htm It's SoNo, so parking isn't the best, but they do have a decent sized parking lot and you can park across the street in "restricted" parking after hours.
Please feel free to email me if you have any questions or comments. I'm looking forward to seeing everyone again!

Mistress Kathleen
fairfieldmunch@aol.com

Friday

New Hostess

Hello everyone,

This is Kathleen the new hostess for the Fairfield County BDSM Munch. I have some big shoes to fill but I will do my best to make sure that things stay ontrack as much as possible. I will do my best to answer your questions and if I don't know the answer I will do my best to find the answer. Feel free to email me direct at fairfieldmunch@aol.com.

For the time being the munch will continue at the Brewhouse in Norwalk on the last Tuesday of the month. Due to a former committment there will be no munch in Feburary, however I am sure things will be on schedule for March. I will keep everyone posted . I will also welcome any comments or suggestions that you may want to share. Look forward to seeing everyone in March.

Kathleen

Sunday

Munch Details

Date: The last Tuesday of the month

Time: 7:30 pm

Place: The Brewhouse Restaurant in South Norwalk
http://www.sonobrewhouse.com/

Who: Anyone involved or interested in wiitwd/bdsm/lmnop


Why: To spend an evening in the company of other kinky folk…to laugh,talk, eat, network, and make new friends.

RSVP: fairfieldmunch@aol.com


RSVP's are appreciated so that we can let the restaurant know how many people to set up for.

Munch Frequently Asked Questions

What is a munch?
A munch is a gathering of people involved in or interested in bdsm (bondage & discipline, dominance & submission, sadomasochism) and related pursuits. They're generally held in public places like a restaurant or food court. Its a no pressure way of meeting like minded people in a casual, relaxed atmosphere without the pressure of roles, party etiquette, etc.

Is it like a play party?
Our munches are NOT play events. We hold them in a family restaurant, and expect people attending to act accordingly. However, once people get to know you, they might invite you to the next play party. Isn't that reason enough to show up?

What should I wear?
Wear whatever you'd normally wear when you go out to eat at a casual restaurant. This isn't the place to display your latest fetishwear. Some people at the munch will need to be reasonably discreet about their interests and we try to accomodate that.

Who comes to a munch? Can I come by myself?
The munch is populated by a wide variety of kinky folk. We're the people your mother warned you about! No, not really. We're interested and active in BDSM. We are people with many years of experience, people just starting out, and everything in between. We are men and women, tops and bottoms and switches, doms and subs, masters and slaves, and just about everything else you can think of. We are het, gay, bi, straight, trangsendered, and everything in between. We're the people who live next door to you, who do the things others are afraid to dream about. We are not an organized leather educational/support group. We don't have a hierarchy, or a power structure. We are not a politically active organization. We range in age from early twenties to ...um..."well seasoned". People are more than welcome to come by themselves. Some people at the munch will be single, others will be partnered. There's no requirement to be in a relationship of any sort.

Will you help me find a partner?
We're not a dating service, and we don't do match making. While its possible that you may meet a potential play partner at a munch, that's not the primary purpose. The best suggestion is to come and get to know people, and see where it leads. Perhaps the dom of your dreams will be sitting across the table from you, but don't count on it. It never hurts, though, to let people know you're available and looking. Perhaps they can introduce you to a friend who might turn out to be your ideal slave. You never know.

What do I do once I'm there?
Eat, drink, and be merry. Seriously, find a place to sit, and introduce yourself to the people around you. Ask for the Munch Hostess, and I'll be happy to introduce you to people as well. Feel free to join in the conversation. Talk as much or as little as you feel comfortable. The munch is a "dutch treat" affair, so get the waitress's attention and order whatever you like from the menu. We all pay for our own meals/drinks.